What may and should happen, sooner or later, quickly or slow, is that, perhaps like you, good people walk away from the fighting and do not take it up themselves. They write it off, the whole thing: perceived differences, grievances, promises — and they embark on the adventure into different and better lives.
Something of the past is dying in Syria.
It’s taking a lot of innocents with it, but it’s unlikely that either Assad will win back what he had and reconstruct or that al-Nusra and company will get what they want and continue their rampage across Damascus and out to the surrounding states.
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