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A Dark Mirror in Language

28 Wednesday Jun 2023

Posted by commart in 21st Century Feudal, 21st Century Modern, Conflict - Culture - Language - Psychology, Philosophy, Political Psychology, Russia, Ukraine

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lying, malignant narcissism, malignant narcissists, Medieval v. Modern, modern politics, political criminality, Political Criminals, self-concept

For the narcissist, there is a dark mirror in language. He looks at his reflection in the pond, sees the sky behind him, and he believes he is gazing up toward heaven-and he goes on living in his own reflection.#MalignantNarcissists#PoliticalCriminals#MaligNarcs#PolitCrims

— J. S. Oppenheim (@JS_Oppenheim) June 28, 2023

The extreme narcissism known to dictators belies an unfortunate process.

More may be involved than being merely vain or having some egotism in need of some judicious but also liberating trimming: most of us–all of us–wish most of all to be what we call “ourselves” at our best, and each according to his own best assessment of abilities–and if we become too full of ourselves (offstage), we may encounter reminders, including from our own self-observing selves, that we are not all that.

Let us sit and sip more quietly.

On the other hand, the clinically (NPD) and politically (malignantly) narcissistic have a tougher self-assignment, and that is to 1) hide the damage done to them when they were helpless or incapable of their own effective defense and 2) cover it with an undamaged and much more competent and greater courageous-heroic image that would be and which becomes their own New Person–The Greatest.

The greater achievement for The Greatest: validation confirmed by love, but a capital-V “Validation!” confirmed by the Applause and Roar of the Crowd–High-Powered VALIDATION!, Limitless and MIGHTY!

We have all the right to transform from children into pretty good adults, but The Greatest want a greatness beyond the boundaries of the good.

Terms one encounters for the malign: delusional, grandiose, messianic.

Behaviors: unconscionable, unscrupulous, ruthless.

In casual description: beyond limits; without boundaries.

Eventually: criminal.


“Those who conceived this war want only one thing — to remain in power forever, live in pompous tasteless palaces, sail on yachts comparable in tonnage and cost to the entire Russian Navy, enjoying unlimited power and complete impunity,” Mr. Bondarev said in his email. “To achieve that they are willing to sacrifice as many lives as it takes.”

Trojanovski, Anton. “‘They basically got everything wrong’: A Russian diplomat speaks out on the war.” The New York Times, May 23, 2022.


In the dark mirror of language, the most primary lie in service to the speaker’s image may be the inverted accusation–on this blog, the “Paranoid Delusional Narcissistic Reflection of Motivation”. The narcissist is always beautiful, good, and right, and the targets unfailingly bent and ugly even though by every objective measurement and view, the narcissist is the evil.

The Greatest must be the greatest as well–not merely pretty good or, son of a gun, lucky!

Image matters and the means to produce it may be obfuscated and covered over, and in the dark mirror, the lies–the lying–really takes off. Putin, poker faced, insists that Russia attacks only military targets.

https://youtu.be/a245RkGUXfk; https://youtu.be/c1xFSCDy8Jo; https://youtu.be/q2nfuIP2tU0; https://youtu.be/8_XCe86resg.

The Greatest lie to aggrandize and enrich themselves, their cronies, families, and networks; to confuse the judgments of others; to perceptually control their fans, marks, and targets–and they lie most of all to hide their crimes.


June 28, 2023.

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FTAC: BackChannels Comments on Video, “The Greatest Revenge of All Times”

20 Tuesday Feb 2018

Posted by commart in Conflict - Culture - Language - Psychology, FTAC - From The Awesome Conversation, Islamic Small Wars, Political Psychology, Psychology

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cultural psychology, jealousy, locus of control, mass murder, Nancy Hartevelt Kobrin, political psychology, psychopathology, revenge, self-concept, self-esteem, suicide terrorism

Posted on Facebook by “Brotality” about six months ago:


The pilot’s success in becoming a pilot should have been Gabriel Pasternak’s revenge.

All else: common murder.

https://conflict-backchannels.com/2015/05/15/nancy-hartevelt-kobrin-listening-reflecting-comprehending-speaking/

Fair for lookup: “maternal cameo”.

Kobrin’s a little challenging for reading, but the manner of taking others into one’s own suicide in suicide terrorism has been well documented and explored.

Everyone has complaints: perhaps the pilot in the above video should have asked himself for greater insight into his own behavioral repertoire, so as not to have alienated so many others — and then blamed them for his continuing his own unhappiness.

Of course some parts of the world grind against us, but our souls battle back with constructive ends and ideals.

While the pilot had found fault with everyone on that plane, the same passengers may have missed the pilot who could just as well have gone on to tweak his “ugly duckling” music into a beautiful swan — then too, with the money he must have been making as a pilot, imagine if he had used his new wealth to attend to more children like himself, how amazing the things they may have gone on to do.

Instead, he took himself out of the picture and drew the hate and want of revenge from all of the families and friends associated with all of the passengers on board his flight.


Regarding the pilot’s “awful music” —

https://youtu.be/Uj7jIhHBm2U

http://www.georgecrumb.net/about/


“Brotality” promotes itself on facebook as an entertainment organization.

BackChannels readers are welcome to look them up and drawn their own conclusions.

The Urban Dictionary offers two or three definitions today of the term “brotality“, among them this gem — “When a real hard ass bro kills someone, mortal kombat style. ‘Bro’ being the prefix and ‘tality’ being the suffix.”

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Mo Asumang – Confronting Racism With Her Person and A Film Crew

01 Sunday Jun 2014

Posted by commart in Anti-Semitism, Conflict - Culture - Language - Psychology, Political Psychology

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documentary, Mo Asumang, political psychology, racial conflict, racism, self-concept

http://youtu.be/bcPine685fI

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Related: http://www.mo-asumang-management.com/

Palestinian alternative activist Mudar Zahran made the connection earlier today between proponents of the anti-Israel BDS movement and Nazis outright — and, of course, he’s spot-on as regards the truth of that — and Canadian professor Linda Feldman had elsewhere and moments prior mentioned the work of Mo Asumang, a German celebrity – “filmmaker, actress, and tv presenter” – who recently has produced a body of work about the being and meaning of “Aryan”.

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“Our religion should be us.  You’re a white man, you’re a god in yourself, stand up and fight for your race . . . .” (1:14)

Related around here: “malignant narcissism“.

In psychology, there may be another aspect in being that intuitively discovers, evolves, and revolves around core identity themes, but whether and to what extent we concern ourselves with our respective legacies in culture, language, race, and religion in the development of individual self-concept seem to me questions quite open but rapidly closing on the race card.

In fact, that theme begs another question: “Is that all you’ve got?”

There is always a great deal else in that noggin — anyone’s — too.

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Related: BBC.  “Mo Asumang: Confronting racism face-to-face.”  May 13, 2014: “I went out and tried to confront these people with my person.”

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FTAC – Admonition to “Reclaim the Heritage of the Land”

22 Monday Oct 2012

Posted by commart in Conflict - Culture - Language - Psychology, FTAC - From The Awesome Conversation, Religion

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cultural ecology, culture, earth, ecology, land, national, political, regional, religious, self-concept, spiritual, spirituality

The question posed by citizens of a developing state had to do with defending it from “Islamist” spoilers and their thoughts about ultimate cultural programming, a path abhorred by all but themselves.  My response:

” . . . a culture, any, I believe, IS its language, and its language contains ITS stories, ITS art, ITS theater, ITS dance, ITS customs, and most important and never to be displaced or replaced: ITS Literature. Books. Legends. Folk tales. Poems. Songs. IF the overlay of a colonizing or imperial or even religious culture — any — has dimmed the vibrancy of the expression of the earth through its evolving human complement, THEN one might consider taking a good, long, and shared elegiac journey through the past and reinstalling all that charms, delights, educates, informs, and refreshes the culture, rightly grounded, literally, to come in time and to become itself.

How is that for a different kind of “civilizational mission”?

My suggestion to you: reclaim in modern form the authentic heritage of the land.”

Also referenced in the conversation: American Transcendentalism and Vine Deloria, Jr.’s God is Red.

I’ve not wish to see English echoed in another language but, with peace, to enjoy the emergence of a reinvigorated foreign language, one more capable of serving the needs of cultural vibrancy born of the soil and coursing through the blood alive with it and in love with it too.

Let Colorado be Colorado, says I, and then may the people of every village and state revel in the mountains, plains, and rivers of their birth and ancestry.

FNS – Tammy Swofford – “Spider Webs” – About National Self-Concept

19 Friday Oct 2012

Posted by commart in Conflict - Culture - Language - Psychology, Fast News Share, Free Speech, Islamic Small Wars, Religion

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It occurred to me that humans are quite similar to the spider population. Each of us spins the web of our own existence. Our world exists and finds meaning by the daily tending to the threads of our lives. These threads form our core identity and give us a sense of place in a world that now supports seven billion additional spider webs. It is important, and indeed healthy that we not be reduced to nothingness. The threads of our lives make the journey on earth worth the trip.

More: Daily Times, October 5, 2012.

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Hillel the Elder

"That which is distasteful to thee do not do to another. That is the whole of Torah. The rest is commentary. Now go and study."

"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? If not now, when?"

"Whosoever destroys a soul, it is considered as if he destroyed an entire world. And whosoever that saves a life, it is considered as if he saved an entire world."

Oriana Fallaci
"Whether it comes from a despotic sovereign or an elected president, from a murderous general or a beloved leader, I see power as an inhuman and hateful phenomenon...I have always looked on disobedience toward the oppressive as the only way to use the miracle of having been born."

Talmud 7:16 as Quoted by Rishon Rishon in 2004
Qohelet Raba, 7:16

אכזרי סוף שנעשה אכזרי במקום רחמן

Kol mi shena`asa rahaman bimqom akhzari Sof shena`asa akhzari bimqom rahaman

All who are made to be compassionate in the place of the cruel In the end are made to be cruel in the place of the compassionate.

More colloquially translated: "Those who are kind to the cruel, in the end will be cruel to the kind."

Online Source: http://www.rishon-rishon.com/archives/044412.php

Abraham Isaac Kook

"The purely righteous do not complain about evil, rather they add justice.They do not complain about heresy, rather they add faith.They do not complain about ignorance, rather they add wisdom." From the pages of Arpilei Tohar.

Heinrich Heine
"Where books are burned, in the end people will be burned." -- From Almansor: A Tragedy (1823).

Simon Wiesenthal
Remark Made in the Ballroom of the Imperial Hotel, Vienna, Austria on the occasion of His 90th Birthday: "The Nazis are no more, but we are still here, singing and dancing."

Maimonides
"Truth does not become more true if the whole world were to accept it; nor does it become less true if the whole world were to reject it."

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Milan Kundera
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Malala Yousafzai
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What I Have Said About the Jews

My people, not that I speak for them, I nonetheless describe as a "global ethnic commune with its heart in Jerusalem and soul in the Land of Israel."

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Anti-Semitism / Anti-Zionism = Signal of Fascism

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One hopes for knowledge to allay fear; one hopes for love to overmatch hate.

Too often, the security found in the parroting of a loyal lie outweighs the integrity to be earned in confronting and voicing an uncomfortable truth.

Those who make their followers believe absurdities may also make them commit atrocities.

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“Revisionism” is the most contemptible path that power takes to abet theft and hide shame by attempting to alter public perception of past events.

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